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The Slow Weekender
The posts here focus on life, love, loss, and everything ordinary and sacred in between. Using my daily observations, slow lifestyle, and old-fashioned sensibilities, I strive to capture both the simple and grand experiences that help create a meaningful life.
If you engage in activities and connections that make you hum most weeks, then you are likely to feel at home here.
If your life feels out of balance, I hope these writings provide a muse and inspiration as you seek a richer daily rhythm.
Part Two: The Story of My Long and Complicated Relationship with Romance.
This blog explores the author's journey of reclaiming her "romantic" self, exiled due to societal pressures and personal shame. She redefines romanticism as finding beauty in everyday moments, not just grand gestures, and emphasizes the importance of integrating all parts of oneself for wholeness. The author's story encourages readers to embrace their own hidden selves and redefine ideas or beliefs that have negatively impacted their sense of authenticity.
Part One: The Story of My Long and Complicated Relationship with Romance.
Facing graduation in 1998, a young woman grappled with the transition to adulthood, symbolized by a dramatic midnight breakdown. Her romantic, expressive nature, once celebrated through poetry and heartfelt gestures, clashed with societal expectations of professional success. Forced to suppress this "softer" side, she embarked on years of feeling lost, until a journey of self-discovery and acceptance led her to reclaim her authentic self, realizing that vulnerability and tenderness are strengths, not weaknesses.
Nothing and Everything All at Once
An off-grid weekend in the Rockies unexpectedly highlights the profound impact of silence on our minds and bodies, forcing the author to examine her relationship and comfort with silence in a world filled with noise and distraction. Contemplative and though-provoking, this blog challenges you to consider how much silence is in your daily routines.
Getting Real About Starting a Gratitude Practice
This blog post cuts through the noise to reveal the real power of gratitude, backed by science and heartwarming personal stories. Discover how to overcome your brain's negativity bias and cultivate a simple, yet profound gratitude practice, even amidst the busyness of daily life. Learn a 3-minute morning mindfulness routine that anyone can easily incorporate, and gain the confidence to embrace gratitude as a transformative tool for a more fulfilling life.
A Morning of Snow and Soul: Life Lessons from the Mountainside
A mid-March snowstorm in Colorado transforms a nature quest into a surreal winter wonderland. A solo wander, initially filled with challenge and solitude, blossoms into a profound experience of connection with nature and self, culminating in the transformative power of belonging.
Grande Dame: The Tale of a Silver Punch Bowl
A forgotten silver punch bowl, passed down through generations, unexpectedly brought joy and elegance to a pandemic-era party. This heirloom, once overlooked and underused, became the centerpiece of a memorable event, reminding us of the power of tradition and the importance of cherishing the past.
Healthy Boundaries During the Holidays
Five Ideas (with Scripts!) for Navigating Tricky Family Situations at the Holidays.
Ditch the microwave. Use the kettle.
Ditch the microwave. Use the kettle. Paying attention and daily ritual.
A Story of Learning to Slow Down
The Story of Learning to Slow Down: As Told to Me by a 60 Year Old Man in Transition
Talking to Strangers and Lessons on Taking Chances
Talking to Strangers and Lessons on Taking Chances
If journaling is “not your thing” or you have just never taken up the habit, read this. Maybe you will.
If journaling is “not your thing” or you have just never taken up the habit, read this. Maybe you will.